It is natural to be concerned about your child’s development and how to support them. Your child may be experiencing overwhelming feelings and emotions that are causing them to behave in a different way. For children 11 years onwards, go through physical, cognitive, and emotional changes which can cause disruption to their lives and the lives of the people who are closest to them.
Some of your concerns may be related to bullying at school, self-harming, suicidal thoughts, anxiety, disruptive or rebellious behaviour, sleeping patterns, unable to cope, sadness, and generally how they are getting along with family, friends and at school.
Every child is special and unique, and so are their experiences. My aim in counselling is to give young people the opportunity to explore their feelings, experiences and identities without judgment. By recognising what feels right for them and being able to experiment with language and relationship dynamics in a safe environment. Most importantly family support can make a huge difference.
My duty of care is to protect and nurture your child by providing a safe space for them to work through social, developmental, cultural, and environmental concerns impacting their lives. Also, to reassure parents or guardians that my role is unbiassed and non-judgmental with continued commitment to supporting young people’s mental health.
If you feel worried that your child may attempt suicide or seriously hurt themself, this is an emergency. You can call 999 and ask for an ambulance. Then go straight to A&E, if you can. Mental health emergencies are serious. You aren't wasting anyone's time.
For more information and advice on how to talk to a young person about their mental health - go to MIND.org. Alternatively, for 24/7 support contact:
HOPELINEUK on 0800 068 4141 or the Samaritans on 116 123.
Call NHS 111 or contact a local urgent mental health helpline if you live in England.